As writes in the New York Times today, Peace of Mind Is First Benefit for Many Now Getting Medicaid. http://www.nytimes.com/2014/01/21/health/peace-of-mind-is-first-benefit-for-many-now-getting-medicaid.html?hp&_r=0
This excerpt from the article says enough: As health care coverage under the new law sputters to life, it is already having a profound effect on the lives of poor Americans. Enrollment in private insurance plans has been sluggish, but sign-ups for Medicaid, the federal insurance program for the poor, have surged in many states. Here in West Virginia, which has some of the shortest life spans and highest poverty rates in the country, the strength of the demand has surprised officials, with more than 75,000 people enrolling in Medicaid.
Seniors who have no hope of paying the costs of nursing home care rely on Medicaid or gifts from children who cannot afford to fund their parents' care along with their own planning for retirement.
Of course you have heard of the Medicaid Expansion as part of President Obama's Healthcare plan, the Affordable Care Act. You can see many of the arguments for an against it here: http://www.democratichub.com/medicaid.aspx?o=pv&gclid=CJqe4-fkjbwCFTNp7AodMlUAfQ
AARP, the American Association of Retired Persons has a great website that allows you to search for answers on all questions, not just Medicaid. Go to http://www.aarp.org/ for all your AARP answers.
Applying for Medicaid is different in each state; in Florida, go to the Agency for Healthcare Administration's website at http://www.fdhc.state.fl.us/
or just go here: http://www.goalbuilder.com/search/medicaid.html
If you are like most, the various websites and confusing applications can cause all the stress that is supposed to be relieved as noted in the NYT article. http://www.nytimes.com/
Save your stress, when you have questions, call 407-645-3297 or visit our website at www.aubreylaw.com
Thanks for stopping by to read, feel free to send me a comment or question.
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Monday, January 20, 2014
Wednesday, November 27, 2013
Why Did the Court Do That?
Sometimes you hear of a court case and immediately say "WHAT???"
Just think of the McDonalds Coffee Case, where the little old lady spilled coffee in the drive thru and sued McDonalds for Millions of Dollars and was eventually awarded 8 Million Dollars. WHAT???
Then there is this case out of New York.
As attorneys, we are sometimes prevented from showing the court ALL THE FACTS. Sometimes "fact" is actually Opinion, and may even be biased. One side's view of facts is always distorted toward their view of the entire case. The other side doesn't want the "fact" interpreted a certain way, and expresses its Opinion of the reason for the "Fact" being presented . . . at Trial, anything can happen.
Oh, back to the McDonalds case. There were many facts that failed to make the news. You can read the Wikipedia account here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Liebeck_v._McDonald%27s_Restaurants
When you have questions, call me 407-645-3297 or visit my website www.aubreylaw.com
I look forward to speaking with you!
Just think of the McDonalds Coffee Case, where the little old lady spilled coffee in the drive thru and sued McDonalds for Millions of Dollars and was eventually awarded 8 Million Dollars. WHAT???
Then there is this case out of New York.
Brett M.D. v. Elizabeth A.D.
972 N.Y.S.2d 36
(New York Supreme Court, Appellate Division, First Department, October 1, 2013)
Regardless of the mother's allegations against the father
regarding domestic violence and sexual abuse of the
child, the Appellate Court found the proper venue was New York, not Florida where the Mother and Child were currently living. WHAT??? These incidents allegedly occurred in New York,
the father had agreed to pay the child's travel expenses to New York
for the proceedings and any related evaluations, and, whenever feasible,
the court would permit mother to appear at proceedings telephonically
from Florida, at little expense to her. WHAT???
Ok, the mother had moved to Florida with the child just one month before the father filed a custody case in New York, where the child was born and had lived most of his life. When you have all the facts the court reviewed, and not just the headlines from the paper, the answer may become more reasonable. Or not.972 N.Y.S.2d 36
(New York Supreme Court, Appellate Division, First Department, October 1, 2013)
As attorneys, we are sometimes prevented from showing the court ALL THE FACTS. Sometimes "fact" is actually Opinion, and may even be biased. One side's view of facts is always distorted toward their view of the entire case. The other side doesn't want the "fact" interpreted a certain way, and expresses its Opinion of the reason for the "Fact" being presented . . . at Trial, anything can happen.
Oh, back to the McDonalds case. There were many facts that failed to make the news. You can read the Wikipedia account here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Liebeck_v._McDonald%27s_Restaurants
When you have questions, call me 407-645-3297 or visit my website www.aubreylaw.com
I look forward to speaking with you!
Wednesday, January 2, 2013
Whose Interests Do You Represent?
As an Attorney, I am required to advance the interests of my client. Sometimes that doesn't appear clear from one perspective or another. Many, MANY times, the opposing party to litigation will try to convince my client that I am in fact NOT advancing their interests, but either I am working against them, or not working at all - claims of Dilly, Dally and Delay P.A.
What are my client's Interests? Perhaps a better description would be, my client hopes, dreams, and desires for their family. What my client wants, as the outcome of litigation is the primary "Interest" I must support. So long as my client is not seeking litigation just to harass the other side, or just to delay the inevitable resolution, I must follow the Client's direction.
A great note on Interests can be found here: http://be-fulfilled.org/post/2012/11/17/Helping-Clients-Understand-Interests.aspx
When you want the advice of an attorney, call me.
Don't be afraid to call; I assure you that many others have been in the same position and needed help. Bo Prosser likes to say the two most basic prayers are Please Help, and Thank you. I like that! Feel free to visit my website at www.aubreylaw.com and send me a message. You will be glad you did! Aubrey
What are my client's Interests? Perhaps a better description would be, my client hopes, dreams, and desires for their family. What my client wants, as the outcome of litigation is the primary "Interest" I must support. So long as my client is not seeking litigation just to harass the other side, or just to delay the inevitable resolution, I must follow the Client's direction.
A great note on Interests can be found here: http://be-fulfilled.org/post/2012/11/17/Helping-Clients-Understand-Interests.aspx
When you want the advice of an attorney, call me.
Don't be afraid to call; I assure you that many others have been in the same position and needed help. Bo Prosser likes to say the two most basic prayers are Please Help, and Thank you. I like that! Feel free to visit my website at www.aubreylaw.com and send me a message. You will be glad you did! Aubrey
Wednesday, October 5, 2011
Change to Social Security Hours
In case you missed it, the Social Security Administration announced a change effective August 15 of this year. The announcement will no doubt affect services provided by attorneys as well as the Social Security Office. If your Elder Law Attorney or Family Law Attorney must deal with Social Security Issues as well, this is Not a welcome change. The announcement follows:
Effective August 15, 2011, Social Security field offices nationwide will close to the public 30 minutes early each day. For example, a field office that is usually open to the public Monday through Friday from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. will close daily at 3:30 p.m.
“While agency employees will continue to work their regular hours, this shorter public window will allow us to complete face-to-face service with the visiting public without incurring the cost of overtime for our employees,” said Michael J. Astrue, Commissioner of Social Security. “Congress provided our agency with nearly $1 billion less than the President requested for our budget this fiscal year, which makes it impossible for us to provide the amount of overtime needed to handle service to the public as we have in the past.”
Most Social Security services do not require a visit to an office. For example, anyone wishing to apply for benefits, sign up for direct deposit, replace a Medicare card, obtain a proof of income letter or inform us of a change of address or telephone number may do so at http://www.socialsecurity.gov/ or by dialing our toll-free number: 1-800-772-1213 (TTY 1-800-325-0778).
In Elder Law, Family Law and Divorce, many people have to discuss how to allocate Social Security Benefits paid to children or dependents. Sometimes these are the only assets or income for the family. If you need help, Call me at 407-645-3297 or visit my website at www.aubreylaw.com
I look forward to hearing from you. Aubrey
Tuesday, September 27, 2011
Guardianship, Conservatorship and Rights
The Orange County Bar Association, Solo and Small Firm Committee met in Orlando today to discuss Basic Guardianships. I always enjoy a refresher course, so I attended. Wow! OK, so I knew most of this, but its nice to meet other attorneys for lunch and have an excuse to add a refresher to my Blog.
In Florida, any adult can file a Petition to Determine Incapacity against any other adult. This is coupled with a Petition to Appoint Guardian so the Alleged Incapacitated Person, or Proposed Ward, can be protected. But Protected from what?
As we age, our brains may not function correctly in all instances. Sometimes, Alzheimers, Dememtia, stroke or other disease may render one incapable of understanding the dangers of everyday living. When a person is incapacitated so they are a danger to themselves, the court can step in and remove some of their rights in order to protect them from self-inflicted harm. The harm may be physical in nature, or financial.
Many people try to take advantage of these normal aging processes and financially exploit seniors. Sometimes even family is guilty of exploitation. In fact, Many times the person being exploited is a close relation to the abuser. Financial exploitation IS ABUSE!
Once the Petition is filed, the court appoints a 3-person committee to evaluated the "Proposed Ward," or "Allegedly Incapacitate Person" to determine whether the AIP is competent to make life decisions. The 3 person "Examining Committee" includes two doctors and one layperson with experience in Elder Affairs. Llife decisions that may be impaired by the court include such major decisions as voting, marriage, living arrangements, donations to religious organizations, medications, surgeries. No less important are decisions involving who may visit the ward or where the ward may travel with visitors.
The Court also appoints an Attorney Ad Litem to represent the AIP or Proposed Ward. Sometimes the AIP has a longstanding relationship with an attorney who will represent him in the proceedings. Either way, the Proposed Ward is protected so that rights are only removed to the most limited extent necessary to protect the Ward. Often the Proposed Ward will have completed a Durable Power of Attorney that obviates the need of a Guardianship proceeding; a Preneed Guardianship is also available to help lower the cost of eventual Guardianship Proceedings.
If you have a Power of Attorney, it must be Durable in order to continue operation once a person is found to be incapacitated or what we think of as incompetent. If you thought everything was honky dorey, then watch out! Powers of Attorney come in many shapes and sizes and can even be purchased at Home Depot, Lowes, OfficeMax, Target and Walmart. They are NOT all the same. They are Legal Documents that include required formalities in the signing. I have had more than one client who brought a "Durable Power of Attorney" that was improper and ineffective. People have signed in the wrong space, forgotten to notarize signatures, "checked" the wrong box, and even paid an attorney for a "Durable" power of attorney which expired at incapacity. Please seek help in evaluating your needs.
If you have read this far, you may wonder what all these protections cost. A Durable Power of Attorney is certainly the least expensive.
Guardianships may cost between $1,500 minimum and several tens of thousands when competing interests are active in contesting the Guardianship. The filing fees alone are more than $600. Payment for the Examining Committee (between $850 and $1,500) and Attorney Ad Litem (between $500 and $5,000) make the process appear expensive to some. When you consider that a person is potentially losing their rights as a citizen, you may better understand the expense. Obviously your selection of an attorney is one critical factor in controlling these costs and making the necessary legal filings as efficient as possible.
When you have questions about the competence of your parents or elderly neighbors, Call me at 407-645-3297 or visit my website at www.aubreylaw.com
I look forward to hearing from you.
In Florida, any adult can file a Petition to Determine Incapacity against any other adult. This is coupled with a Petition to Appoint Guardian so the Alleged Incapacitated Person, or Proposed Ward, can be protected. But Protected from what?
As we age, our brains may not function correctly in all instances. Sometimes, Alzheimers, Dememtia, stroke or other disease may render one incapable of understanding the dangers of everyday living. When a person is incapacitated so they are a danger to themselves, the court can step in and remove some of their rights in order to protect them from self-inflicted harm. The harm may be physical in nature, or financial.
Many people try to take advantage of these normal aging processes and financially exploit seniors. Sometimes even family is guilty of exploitation. In fact, Many times the person being exploited is a close relation to the abuser. Financial exploitation IS ABUSE!
Once the Petition is filed, the court appoints a 3-person committee to evaluated the "Proposed Ward," or "Allegedly Incapacitate Person" to determine whether the AIP is competent to make life decisions. The 3 person "Examining Committee" includes two doctors and one layperson with experience in Elder Affairs. Llife decisions that may be impaired by the court include such major decisions as voting, marriage, living arrangements, donations to religious organizations, medications, surgeries. No less important are decisions involving who may visit the ward or where the ward may travel with visitors.
The Court also appoints an Attorney Ad Litem to represent the AIP or Proposed Ward. Sometimes the AIP has a longstanding relationship with an attorney who will represent him in the proceedings. Either way, the Proposed Ward is protected so that rights are only removed to the most limited extent necessary to protect the Ward. Often the Proposed Ward will have completed a Durable Power of Attorney that obviates the need of a Guardianship proceeding; a Preneed Guardianship is also available to help lower the cost of eventual Guardianship Proceedings.
If you have a Power of Attorney, it must be Durable in order to continue operation once a person is found to be incapacitated or what we think of as incompetent. If you thought everything was honky dorey, then watch out! Powers of Attorney come in many shapes and sizes and can even be purchased at Home Depot, Lowes, OfficeMax, Target and Walmart. They are NOT all the same. They are Legal Documents that include required formalities in the signing. I have had more than one client who brought a "Durable Power of Attorney" that was improper and ineffective. People have signed in the wrong space, forgotten to notarize signatures, "checked" the wrong box, and even paid an attorney for a "Durable" power of attorney which expired at incapacity. Please seek help in evaluating your needs.
If you have read this far, you may wonder what all these protections cost. A Durable Power of Attorney is certainly the least expensive.
Guardianships may cost between $1,500 minimum and several tens of thousands when competing interests are active in contesting the Guardianship. The filing fees alone are more than $600. Payment for the Examining Committee (between $850 and $1,500) and Attorney Ad Litem (between $500 and $5,000) make the process appear expensive to some. When you consider that a person is potentially losing their rights as a citizen, you may better understand the expense. Obviously your selection of an attorney is one critical factor in controlling these costs and making the necessary legal filings as efficient as possible.
When you have questions about the competence of your parents or elderly neighbors, Call me at 407-645-3297 or visit my website at www.aubreylaw.com
I look forward to hearing from you.
Thursday, September 8, 2011
Cutthroat Legal Practice
When I hear of a "Cutthroat Attorney," I wonder, "who asked for that?" Admission to the Florida Bar requires an Oath, which states in part, "I will abstain from all offensive personality . . . unless required by the justice of the cause with which I am charged." Its possible you have heard stories of lawyers who need to review this oath again, perhaps daily.
Why people in court would want "the meanest, nastiest attorney they can find" escapes me. If you are known by the company you keep, well, lets just say, I prefer to keep company with the very best people around.
I have known attorneys who were easy to work with, and I have known lawyers who could not agree the sky is blue. Those who are easy to work with, I routinely mention to clients I am unable to assist. Attorneys who cannot agree on anything, I trust can survive without my assistance.
The meanest, nastiest attorneys tend to drive up litigation costs without significant benefit to their clients, while those attorneys who work with the other side and try to resolve conflicts tend to help their clients through the litigation process. We have all heard stories of divorces costing more than 20 or 30 THOUSAND dollars. I truly believe "Who wins" is NOT really as important as "If or Where" your children attend college.
Attorneys who know how to work with opposing counsel tend to achieve better results overall whether through settlement or in trial, in my humble opinion. Some of the most aggressive litigators in the Orlando area have been the easiest to work with when their clients have modest means. That is to say, even the nastiest attorneys can agree when they are not being paid well. I find this disappointing. If the client's goals are reasonable, why should the litigation change based on the attorney's paycheck?
Perhaps I am being obtuse. I think a fair price for an honest days work should be everyone's goal.
If you need an attorney, call me. 407-645-3297 or visit my website at www.aubreylaw.com
Thursday, January 6, 2011
Happy New Year 2011
Happy New Year!!!
Did you make any New Year's Resolutions?
This is a time when many people set out to change their life; whether that means changing budgetary finance issues, dietary health issues, life philosophies, or problem solving techniques, I wish you the very best.
I recently reviewed The 10 Commandments of Common Sense, by Hal Urban. What a great guide for life transformation! As you know, Common Sense is in many cases quite uncommon!
1. The past three years have given many people new perspectives of financial issues, and consumer spending. People have begun using Layaway plans, and Christmas Club accounts again. As a child, I used a Layaway Plan at Kmart to purchase a Green Machine, the hot toy for kids one year. After only 4 months, I had worked to earn the 31.50 plus tax to get the toy out of the store. I rode my Green Machine for many months, then sold it at a yard sale.
Remember Yard Sales? I have been recommending those to clients quite frequently. How much stuff do we really need. Donations to Good Will, the Salvation Army, and other recyclers is a side benefit of spring cleaning which I want to start sooner rather than later. Donations to charities also help the bottom line at tax time if you keep good records of gifts and values.
Remember Visa? MasterCard? American Express? How much are you using those plastic perils? I have heard from so many people that they no longer carry a credit card other than their banks own debit card for purchases. If they need to borrow to spend, they are rethinking the spending and planning other avenues of support.
2. I signed up to run the New York City Half Marathon. I have run several in the past and need to get back into distance running shape. Eating right and exercise provide benefits for life that far outweigh the temporary happiness found in a bowl of ice cream or extra juicy Pittsburgh Style rib eye. Oops, now my mouth is watering.
3. My life philosophy has always been to follow the teachings of Jesus Christ. Call me a Christian, I am not offended. I am also not pushy. For me, I find the Holy Bible to be full of truth and also suggestive of consequences. As a member of the Board of Directors of Christian Ethics Today, I enjoy finding new ways to serve God.
4. Problems solving techniques are really central to my work as an attorney. My favorite technique is merely Anti-procrastination. If you can do it today, why wait til tomorrow? Another is to learn all you can so you can consider more than one solutions to a problem. Time is a precious gift, and its wise use is central to living a life well.
When you have a legal issue this year, I hope you will call me. I can help find a solution or alternative course of action. When issues arise with aging parents, Elder Law Attorneys have great experience dealing with the common issues, and uncommon advice for the truly bizarre issues. Family Law practice centers on Divorce and making sure the needs of children are met. Please call me when you would like to discuss options for your life.
Did you make any New Year's Resolutions?
This is a time when many people set out to change their life; whether that means changing budgetary finance issues, dietary health issues, life philosophies, or problem solving techniques, I wish you the very best.
I recently reviewed The 10 Commandments of Common Sense, by Hal Urban. What a great guide for life transformation! As you know, Common Sense is in many cases quite uncommon!
1. The past three years have given many people new perspectives of financial issues, and consumer spending. People have begun using Layaway plans, and Christmas Club accounts again. As a child, I used a Layaway Plan at Kmart to purchase a Green Machine, the hot toy for kids one year. After only 4 months, I had worked to earn the 31.50 plus tax to get the toy out of the store. I rode my Green Machine for many months, then sold it at a yard sale.
Remember Yard Sales? I have been recommending those to clients quite frequently. How much stuff do we really need. Donations to Good Will, the Salvation Army, and other recyclers is a side benefit of spring cleaning which I want to start sooner rather than later. Donations to charities also help the bottom line at tax time if you keep good records of gifts and values.
Remember Visa? MasterCard? American Express? How much are you using those plastic perils? I have heard from so many people that they no longer carry a credit card other than their banks own debit card for purchases. If they need to borrow to spend, they are rethinking the spending and planning other avenues of support.
2. I signed up to run the New York City Half Marathon. I have run several in the past and need to get back into distance running shape. Eating right and exercise provide benefits for life that far outweigh the temporary happiness found in a bowl of ice cream or extra juicy Pittsburgh Style rib eye. Oops, now my mouth is watering.
3. My life philosophy has always been to follow the teachings of Jesus Christ. Call me a Christian, I am not offended. I am also not pushy. For me, I find the Holy Bible to be full of truth and also suggestive of consequences. As a member of the Board of Directors of Christian Ethics Today, I enjoy finding new ways to serve God.
4. Problems solving techniques are really central to my work as an attorney. My favorite technique is merely Anti-procrastination. If you can do it today, why wait til tomorrow? Another is to learn all you can so you can consider more than one solutions to a problem. Time is a precious gift, and its wise use is central to living a life well.
When you have a legal issue this year, I hope you will call me. I can help find a solution or alternative course of action. When issues arise with aging parents, Elder Law Attorneys have great experience dealing with the common issues, and uncommon advice for the truly bizarre issues. Family Law practice centers on Divorce and making sure the needs of children are met. Please call me when you would like to discuss options for your life.
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
"Specializing In" or One of Many Practice Areas: Selecting an Attorney
When you see an attorney advertising on TV or Billboards, what do you think?
Advertising has been a special problem for attorneys for decades. The First Amendment guarantees "Free Speech" but Bar Associations such as The Florida Bar place significant restrictions on what an attorney can say, when and to whom.
One area of concern to the bar is the "Specialist" or advertising an area of practice with "Specializing In" stated. For an attorney, becoming a "Specialist" means being Certified by the Florida Bar. To be certified, an attorney must devote more than 50% of practice for the previous 5 years to the given area. In Family Law, to advertise as Specializing in Family Law, the attorney must devote the Majority of practice to family law, pass a separate test in Family law, and must have at least two major hearings or trials per year to maintain proficiency.
To advertize "Specializing in Elder Law", one must be "Certified in Practice", devote the Majority of Practice to Elder Law, Pass a difficult test in addition to the Bar Exam, and devote many hours to continuing Legal Education in the area of Elder Law.
From reading this you see how it is virtually impossible to be a specialist in Family law and Elder Law at the same time.
My Practice focuses on both Family Law and Elder Law, but I am not a "Specialist." I devote about 1/2 my practice to each area, but cannot sit for either exam due to my significant practice in both areas. Additionally, Mediation and settlement of most Family Law matters prevents me from going to Trial in the requisite number of cases each year.
My practice is all about helping people and I enjoy my practice. While I'd like to be a "Specialist", for now, I will have to be happy serving my clients needs to the best of my abilities and let their referrals indicate whether I am fulfilling my calling.
If you need help with a family law matter or elder law matter, visit my website at http://www.aubreylaw.com/ or call me at 407-645-3297. I will be happy to assist you. Aubrey
Advertising has been a special problem for attorneys for decades. The First Amendment guarantees "Free Speech" but Bar Associations such as The Florida Bar place significant restrictions on what an attorney can say, when and to whom.
One area of concern to the bar is the "Specialist" or advertising an area of practice with "Specializing In" stated. For an attorney, becoming a "Specialist" means being Certified by the Florida Bar. To be certified, an attorney must devote more than 50% of practice for the previous 5 years to the given area. In Family Law, to advertise as Specializing in Family Law, the attorney must devote the Majority of practice to family law, pass a separate test in Family law, and must have at least two major hearings or trials per year to maintain proficiency.
To advertize "Specializing in Elder Law", one must be "Certified in Practice", devote the Majority of Practice to Elder Law, Pass a difficult test in addition to the Bar Exam, and devote many hours to continuing Legal Education in the area of Elder Law.
From reading this you see how it is virtually impossible to be a specialist in Family law and Elder Law at the same time.
My Practice focuses on both Family Law and Elder Law, but I am not a "Specialist." I devote about 1/2 my practice to each area, but cannot sit for either exam due to my significant practice in both areas. Additionally, Mediation and settlement of most Family Law matters prevents me from going to Trial in the requisite number of cases each year.
My practice is all about helping people and I enjoy my practice. While I'd like to be a "Specialist", for now, I will have to be happy serving my clients needs to the best of my abilities and let their referrals indicate whether I am fulfilling my calling.
If you need help with a family law matter or elder law matter, visit my website at http://www.aubreylaw.com/ or call me at 407-645-3297. I will be happy to assist you. Aubrey
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
How Many Attorneys Does it Take?
I know this sounds like a joke, but I was actually serious. How many attorneys you consult about a problem gives an indication of your interest and trust. How many should you consult? If you receive a recommendation from a trusted friend, and the attorney is competent to handle your case, you may not want to waste time getting second opinions.
Most good attorneys, like any good doctor, will be happy for you to seek out a second opinion. Once you have consulted and aquired a number of opinions, in choosing an attorney you should consider a several questions:
Who do you trust more?
Who makes you feel most comfortable?
Whose advice will you most easily accept?
Who has the simplest fee structure?
Who expects the most up front money, or Retainer?
Who has the expertise in your area of law?
Who has been in practice longer?
Who is most up to date on the Law?
In answering these questions, you will be able to select the attorney most competent to handle your case.
Do not be afraid to ask hard questions, such as:
How much will this cost?
What are the negative possibilities?
Am I liable for any other costs or fees?
Will the court order the other side to pay your fees?
Most important when suing for money damages, child support, alimony, or equitable distribution, what are my chances of actually collecting from the defendant?
In the end, the more answers you have at the beginning, the more likely you are to understand the process and potential outcomes.
So, how many attorneys does it take to change a lightbulb? Just One, but it has to be a good Case.
OK, here is the joke: How many attorneys does it take to change a lightbulb? Four. One to change the lightbulb. One to climb the ladder, one to shake the ladder, one to sue the ladder company.
Most good attorneys, like any good doctor, will be happy for you to seek out a second opinion. Once you have consulted and aquired a number of opinions, in choosing an attorney you should consider a several questions:
Who do you trust more?
Who makes you feel most comfortable?
Whose advice will you most easily accept?
Who has the simplest fee structure?
Who expects the most up front money, or Retainer?
Who has the expertise in your area of law?
Who has been in practice longer?
Who is most up to date on the Law?
In answering these questions, you will be able to select the attorney most competent to handle your case.
Do not be afraid to ask hard questions, such as:
How much will this cost?
What are the negative possibilities?
Am I liable for any other costs or fees?
Will the court order the other side to pay your fees?
Most important when suing for money damages, child support, alimony, or equitable distribution, what are my chances of actually collecting from the defendant?
In the end, the more answers you have at the beginning, the more likely you are to understand the process and potential outcomes.
So, how many attorneys does it take to change a lightbulb? Just One, but it has to be a good Case.
OK, here is the joke: How many attorneys does it take to change a lightbulb? Four. One to change the lightbulb. One to climb the ladder, one to shake the ladder, one to sue the ladder company.
Tuesday, August 17, 2010
Divroce and Child Custody (Timesharing in the 2010 era)
When a couple divorces, their children often feel the pain.
Parents may be relieved, but the children can experience greater loss than the parent may appreciate. Justifications, such as, "they will be better off not having all the fighting in the house" seldom compensate for the loss of the other parent in the home.
For Teens, the loss includes supervision and observation, for younger children, feelings of security and comfort.
Of course there are exceptions. When the marriage and home life has been marked by domestic violence, fighting, inconsistencies, disparate treatments, etc. the children may be as relieved as the parents that the decision to separate has Finally been made.
In Florida we no longer discuss "Custody" or "Primary Residential Responsiblity" with regard to who will most parent the children. Now we use the term Timesharing. The parent with the Majority of the timesharing is not the Custodial Parent. That is the person with the child physically at any given time. What a confusing world.
Lets make it as easy as possible: Both parents Share Parental Responsibility. When the child is with dad, dad is the custodian. When the child is with mom, she is the custodian. The Timeshare each parent has is related to what portion of each week the child spends with that parent. Alternating Weekends is still the "fallback" minimum visitation Timeshare used most often by the courts.
When you have questions, call an attorney who understands these concepts. Selecting an attorney who is familiar with the recent changes to the Florida Statutes will help you ensure your rights are honored and decisions respected. Call me at 407-645-3297 or visit my website at www.aubreylaw.com
I am ready to assist you.
Parents may be relieved, but the children can experience greater loss than the parent may appreciate. Justifications, such as, "they will be better off not having all the fighting in the house" seldom compensate for the loss of the other parent in the home.
For Teens, the loss includes supervision and observation, for younger children, feelings of security and comfort.
Of course there are exceptions. When the marriage and home life has been marked by domestic violence, fighting, inconsistencies, disparate treatments, etc. the children may be as relieved as the parents that the decision to separate has Finally been made.
In Florida we no longer discuss "Custody" or "Primary Residential Responsiblity" with regard to who will most parent the children. Now we use the term Timesharing. The parent with the Majority of the timesharing is not the Custodial Parent. That is the person with the child physically at any given time. What a confusing world.
Lets make it as easy as possible: Both parents Share Parental Responsibility. When the child is with dad, dad is the custodian. When the child is with mom, she is the custodian. The Timeshare each parent has is related to what portion of each week the child spends with that parent. Alternating Weekends is still the "fallback" minimum visitation Timeshare used most often by the courts.
When you have questions, call an attorney who understands these concepts. Selecting an attorney who is familiar with the recent changes to the Florida Statutes will help you ensure your rights are honored and decisions respected. Call me at 407-645-3297 or visit my website at www.aubreylaw.com
I am ready to assist you.
Tuesday, July 6, 2010
Rest and Relaxation - Vacation or Respite Care
Everybody needs a break. I just returned from a very busy vacation. Although it included a couple of telephonic hearings and several face to face meetings with attorneys in Tennessee, as well as a three day convention in Charlotte, NC, I returned refreshed!
In only 7 working days out of the office, I returned with new energy. Sometimes work is so overwhelming, we need to step back and let others take the reins while we ride along enjoying the view. My very capable staff managed to address all the client issues that arose in my absence without having to trouble me with calls and emails of any urgent nature.
For many of my clients caring for their aging parents or disabled children, vacations and time away are almost impossible. Although caring for aging parents can tax a person beyond their comprehension, sometimes the caregivers may not even recognize how truly exhausting their job can be. Many do not think others are willing or capable to provide the care; some may simply feel no one else will do the job, or do the job correctly.
Respite care is used to provide care for the caregiver. Most Assisted Living Facilities have programs to allow seniors in need of care to stay for a few days or even weeks to allow the caregivers the time to unwind and relax on vacation. In home healthcare providers also can provide the necessary down time to caregivers when the invalid is unable to leave the home for any reason.
In my own life, my mother took care of my paternal grandmother for 8 years until just before her death in 1987. During that time, I only remember one time she was away from home for more than 24 hours. Although my father had 8 siblings, no one offered a break.
My mother again was the caregiver and took care of her own father for more than 5 years until his death in 2008. In that time, her sister provided two separate vacations of 1 week each when she provided care for her father. Again, siblings seldom see the needs or offer the support so necessary to provide care to disabled parents. More often than not, the love and affection that spurs such care is ignored in the Will or asset allocations of statutes.
If you are in need of assistance, call me. My number is 407-645-3297 and I will be happy to help you. Either by pointing you to resources in your area, or by assisting in setting up your own will so the people providing the care needed are not trampled in the rush to divide the assets after your death, I help people every day to solve some of life's most pressing issues.
www.aubreylaw.com has many Frequently Asked Questions and other resources to provide you needed information.
In only 7 working days out of the office, I returned with new energy. Sometimes work is so overwhelming, we need to step back and let others take the reins while we ride along enjoying the view. My very capable staff managed to address all the client issues that arose in my absence without having to trouble me with calls and emails of any urgent nature.
For many of my clients caring for their aging parents or disabled children, vacations and time away are almost impossible. Although caring for aging parents can tax a person beyond their comprehension, sometimes the caregivers may not even recognize how truly exhausting their job can be. Many do not think others are willing or capable to provide the care; some may simply feel no one else will do the job, or do the job correctly.
Respite care is used to provide care for the caregiver. Most Assisted Living Facilities have programs to allow seniors in need of care to stay for a few days or even weeks to allow the caregivers the time to unwind and relax on vacation. In home healthcare providers also can provide the necessary down time to caregivers when the invalid is unable to leave the home for any reason.
In my own life, my mother took care of my paternal grandmother for 8 years until just before her death in 1987. During that time, I only remember one time she was away from home for more than 24 hours. Although my father had 8 siblings, no one offered a break.
My mother again was the caregiver and took care of her own father for more than 5 years until his death in 2008. In that time, her sister provided two separate vacations of 1 week each when she provided care for her father. Again, siblings seldom see the needs or offer the support so necessary to provide care to disabled parents. More often than not, the love and affection that spurs such care is ignored in the Will or asset allocations of statutes.
If you are in need of assistance, call me. My number is 407-645-3297 and I will be happy to help you. Either by pointing you to resources in your area, or by assisting in setting up your own will so the people providing the care needed are not trampled in the rush to divide the assets after your death, I help people every day to solve some of life's most pressing issues.
www.aubreylaw.com has many Frequently Asked Questions and other resources to provide you needed information.
Wednesday, June 9, 2010
Grandparents Really Do Have Rights - Visitation
The Florida Statutes give grandparents, and great-grandparents certain rights for visitation with the grandchildren; however, don't get carried away and think you can simply demand access and be granted a lifetime placement with the child.
In all cases involving children, the court MUST consider the "best interests of the child"
in determining whether visitation is appropriate and under what circumstances.
The court must first find either: the marriage was disolved, a parent has abandoned the child or the child was born out of wedlock and no paternity has been established. Following this initial determination, the court then considers the "best interests of the child" and looks to:
a. The willingness of the grandparent to encourage a close and continuing bond between the child and the parent (no interference in parental decision making or actions)
b. The length and quality of the relationship prior to seeking visitation (how long and how much did you see the child before the difficulty arose)
c. The preference of the child if the child is old enough to express a preference on their own
(in layman's terms, teens can't be forced to visit people they don't want to visit)
d. The mental and physical health of the child
e. The mental and physical health of the grandparent
f. Such other factors as the court deems relevant (whatever else the court wants to consider)
If you are a grandparent who wants to have visitation with your grandchildren and you have been prevented by parent, you may have reason to rejoice. Selecting an attorney who understands your rights and the process by which they can be achieved is crucial.
Call me: 407-645-3297 or visit my website at www.aubreylaw.com or www.floridaguardianattorney.com
I will be there to help - and you can be there to help your grandchildren grow up!
In all cases involving children, the court MUST consider the "best interests of the child"
in determining whether visitation is appropriate and under what circumstances.
The court must first find either: the marriage was disolved, a parent has abandoned the child or the child was born out of wedlock and no paternity has been established. Following this initial determination, the court then considers the "best interests of the child" and looks to:
a. The willingness of the grandparent to encourage a close and continuing bond between the child and the parent (no interference in parental decision making or actions)
b. The length and quality of the relationship prior to seeking visitation (how long and how much did you see the child before the difficulty arose)
c. The preference of the child if the child is old enough to express a preference on their own
(in layman's terms, teens can't be forced to visit people they don't want to visit)
d. The mental and physical health of the child
e. The mental and physical health of the grandparent
f. Such other factors as the court deems relevant (whatever else the court wants to consider)
If you are a grandparent who wants to have visitation with your grandchildren and you have been prevented by parent, you may have reason to rejoice. Selecting an attorney who understands your rights and the process by which they can be achieved is crucial.
Call me: 407-645-3297 or visit my website at www.aubreylaw.com or www.floridaguardianattorney.com
I will be there to help - and you can be there to help your grandchildren grow up!
Monday, May 24, 2010
Fraud and Elder Abuse
What happens when you receive a letter from an attorney promising you a settlement of $130,000 but failing to disclose any information as to the case, the parties or how you came to be contacted?
Does your answer change if they include an "Official Bank Check" to cover the court costs as an "advance against "bailiff costs and court fees"?
Unfortunately, many people will fall for this scam and deposit the check into their account, giving vital information to the theives working to steal their money. Others will talk to the scammer on the phone and give all the information needed to have their accounts drained.
Elders are at risk for these scams. The FBI, AARP, and the Florida Department of Elder Affairs all warn of the risks of giving personal information over the phone to someone you don't know, but seniors continue to be duped by official looking correspondence simply because they cannot believe this would be a scam. It all looks so official.
Anyone can go online to verify the identity of an attorney, even those out of state. Go to Martindale.com to find a list of attorneys worldwide who are of good reputation. Lawyers.com and Findlaw.com also lists attorneys. Yes these sites require the attorney to pay a fee for advertising to be listed; however, if attorneys are dealing with you from out of state, shouldn't they be listed somewhere?
Finding an attorney is not hard; verifying the "attorney" who found you is truly serving your interests, may be. Beating fraud is worth the effort.
Does your answer change if they include an "Official Bank Check" to cover the court costs as an "advance against "bailiff costs and court fees"?
Unfortunately, many people will fall for this scam and deposit the check into their account, giving vital information to the theives working to steal their money. Others will talk to the scammer on the phone and give all the information needed to have their accounts drained.
Elders are at risk for these scams. The FBI, AARP, and the Florida Department of Elder Affairs all warn of the risks of giving personal information over the phone to someone you don't know, but seniors continue to be duped by official looking correspondence simply because they cannot believe this would be a scam. It all looks so official.
Anyone can go online to verify the identity of an attorney, even those out of state. Go to Martindale.com to find a list of attorneys worldwide who are of good reputation. Lawyers.com and Findlaw.com also lists attorneys. Yes these sites require the attorney to pay a fee for advertising to be listed; however, if attorneys are dealing with you from out of state, shouldn't they be listed somewhere?
Finding an attorney is not hard; verifying the "attorney" who found you is truly serving your interests, may be. Beating fraud is worth the effort.
Friday, May 21, 2010
What Not to Expect from Your Attorney
Guarantee: No Attorney should Ever "Guarantee" a certain result from a court. Many times courts rule on issues in line with past rulings; however, a Guarantee of any certain result is prohibited by the rules of ethical conduct. The Attorney can never forsee every possible occurrance or testimony in a given case. With the facts at hand the attorney may recommend a course of action, but any "Guarantee" of what the court will do, is quite simply bad advice.
Promise: Like a Guarantee, for an attorney to "Promise" a certain result is not allowed. The attorney has no control over the other party, and no control over the court.
Advise that the Client Lie: Attorneys are forbidden to illicit testimony they know to be false. This means, if the attorney asks the client a question under oath, such as at trial or deposition, and the client answers in such a way as the attorney Knows the answer if False, the attorney must correct the situtation. There are ethical rules every attorney MUST follow to ensure the integrity of the court system. The most important is not to allow the client to lie to the court.
Willingness to Lie for the Client: Just as the attorney cannot encourage or permit the client to lie to the court, so the Attorney if Forbidden to Lie for the client. If your attorney is willing to lie for you, how can you trust that your attorney will not lie TO you?
Dishonesty: At the heart of the Attorney-Client privilege is the notion that the attorney cannot adequately represent the client without full knowledge and honesty from the client. The Client therefore Must be able to Trust the Attorney to Fully and Fairly answer questions posed. In order to protect the client to fully reveal information that may help or harm the case, the attorney-client privilege prevents the attorney revealing or using the information to the client's detriment.
Perfection: The PRACTICE of Law is truly an art, not a science. Statutes are continually amended by legislatures, interpreted by courts, and exposed by attorneys. Sometimes what has always occurred doesn't and many times the court has not had a question posed in this way. Attorneys may not have all the information necessary to completely anticipate every possible problem. But we try!
If you can accept attorneys are only human, you may be able to accept their assistance!
Promise: Like a Guarantee, for an attorney to "Promise" a certain result is not allowed. The attorney has no control over the other party, and no control over the court.
Advise that the Client Lie: Attorneys are forbidden to illicit testimony they know to be false. This means, if the attorney asks the client a question under oath, such as at trial or deposition, and the client answers in such a way as the attorney Knows the answer if False, the attorney must correct the situtation. There are ethical rules every attorney MUST follow to ensure the integrity of the court system. The most important is not to allow the client to lie to the court.
Willingness to Lie for the Client: Just as the attorney cannot encourage or permit the client to lie to the court, so the Attorney if Forbidden to Lie for the client. If your attorney is willing to lie for you, how can you trust that your attorney will not lie TO you?
Dishonesty: At the heart of the Attorney-Client privilege is the notion that the attorney cannot adequately represent the client without full knowledge and honesty from the client. The Client therefore Must be able to Trust the Attorney to Fully and Fairly answer questions posed. In order to protect the client to fully reveal information that may help or harm the case, the attorney-client privilege prevents the attorney revealing or using the information to the client's detriment.
Perfection: The PRACTICE of Law is truly an art, not a science. Statutes are continually amended by legislatures, interpreted by courts, and exposed by attorneys. Sometimes what has always occurred doesn't and many times the court has not had a question posed in this way. Attorneys may not have all the information necessary to completely anticipate every possible problem. But we try!
If you can accept attorneys are only human, you may be able to accept their assistance!
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
What Should You Expect from Your Lawyer?
Honesty. If your attorney doesn't tell you the potential downside and pittfalls of a course of action, she is doing you a disservice. You must know the bad possibilities as well as the good. Only when fully informed can you make the best decision. After all, you are the one who has to live with your decisions!
Integrity. Your opponent must be able to trust what your attorney tells them. The Court MUST be able to trust what your attorney tells it. If the attorney says he will present certain evidence, or he has a receipt showing something was purchased by a business, he must be able to back it up, or be forced to prove every detail - at potentially great expense.
Fairness. Treating the other side fairly doesn't hurt your case. In many instances it begins the process of healing that will allow both sides to put the difficulties to rest once and for all in settlement. A Trial is a bad way to achieve fairness. The parties have far less input and much greater expense. Besides, who knows your family better, You and Your future Ex Spouse? or the Judge who has listened to both sides of an argument for 4-6 hours?
Reasonable Billing Practices. The honest answer is Your attorney has a family to feed and must operate his or her practice in a profitable manner. Many times people assume a "quick question" will not result in a bill. Sometimes the answer is clear, but the question still interrupts the work ongoing in the office and usually requires an answer the same day. With only 8 hours in the work day, most attorneys have to work several more hours each day just to keep the messages from piling up, while still researching legal opinions, writing briefs, reviewing the latest rulings, keeping abreast of statutory law changes, planning for hearings, preparing for trials, etc.
Tomorrow: What NOT to expect from your attorney.
Integrity. Your opponent must be able to trust what your attorney tells them. The Court MUST be able to trust what your attorney tells it. If the attorney says he will present certain evidence, or he has a receipt showing something was purchased by a business, he must be able to back it up, or be forced to prove every detail - at potentially great expense.
Fairness. Treating the other side fairly doesn't hurt your case. In many instances it begins the process of healing that will allow both sides to put the difficulties to rest once and for all in settlement. A Trial is a bad way to achieve fairness. The parties have far less input and much greater expense. Besides, who knows your family better, You and Your future Ex Spouse? or the Judge who has listened to both sides of an argument for 4-6 hours?
Reasonable Billing Practices. The honest answer is Your attorney has a family to feed and must operate his or her practice in a profitable manner. Many times people assume a "quick question" will not result in a bill. Sometimes the answer is clear, but the question still interrupts the work ongoing in the office and usually requires an answer the same day. With only 8 hours in the work day, most attorneys have to work several more hours each day just to keep the messages from piling up, while still researching legal opinions, writing briefs, reviewing the latest rulings, keeping abreast of statutory law changes, planning for hearings, preparing for trials, etc.
Tomorrow: What NOT to expect from your attorney.
Thursday, March 11, 2010
Durable Power of Attorney
Do you have one? Do you need one? Who has access to YOUR MONEY?
I asked these questions at a seminar today with the Boost Your Brain Program of the Crosby YMCA Wellness Center in Winter Park. Meeting with 41 Y members allows me to meet new potential clients. It also allows me to hear what questions concern them most. Many questions begin with either "my friend" or "my parent" and relate particular issues being dealt with daily. They continue asking "is doing this, that or the other thing OK?" In a seminar setting I can answer general questions common to many caregivers in a minimum of time by comparison to an office consultation. The information passed out to a large group is by nature very general and may apply in peculier ways to any given set of circumstances.
More complex questions are best answered in the office during a personal consultation session. One persons actions with regard to care and keeping may differ radically from another person's situation. If you have questions, Call an Attorney. We are here to help. Many times a question over the phone can prevent major complications that could impact Medicaid Qualifiation, Taxes, Inheritance, Probate, Guardianship, etc.
A few of the members had questions regarding how to pay bills when sharing a residence with their mother, brother, etc. Dividing bills and paying 1/2 to the other person may seem reasonable today, but when the IRS audits your taxes, or when applying for medicaid, or when going through Probate administration, the answers may radically alter treatment in the individual case.
Bottom Line: Ask the question of a professional. Do not depend on the advice given to a friend by their former whatever. Be Careful out there! And I am Proud of You!
I asked these questions at a seminar today with the Boost Your Brain Program of the Crosby YMCA Wellness Center in Winter Park. Meeting with 41 Y members allows me to meet new potential clients. It also allows me to hear what questions concern them most. Many questions begin with either "my friend" or "my parent" and relate particular issues being dealt with daily. They continue asking "is doing this, that or the other thing OK?" In a seminar setting I can answer general questions common to many caregivers in a minimum of time by comparison to an office consultation. The information passed out to a large group is by nature very general and may apply in peculier ways to any given set of circumstances.
More complex questions are best answered in the office during a personal consultation session. One persons actions with regard to care and keeping may differ radically from another person's situation. If you have questions, Call an Attorney. We are here to help. Many times a question over the phone can prevent major complications that could impact Medicaid Qualifiation, Taxes, Inheritance, Probate, Guardianship, etc.
A few of the members had questions regarding how to pay bills when sharing a residence with their mother, brother, etc. Dividing bills and paying 1/2 to the other person may seem reasonable today, but when the IRS audits your taxes, or when applying for medicaid, or when going through Probate administration, the answers may radically alter treatment in the individual case.
Bottom Line: Ask the question of a professional. Do not depend on the advice given to a friend by their former whatever. Be Careful out there! And I am Proud of You!
Thursday, March 4, 2010
Paper My Office
An attorney recently promised to "Paper (my) office with everything we have." Since this was a relatively new attorney, not young in years but in practice, I tried not to take offense at what is normally a derogatory statement. By most attorney's understanding,
"papering an office" implies "we will bury you in paper so you can't possibly respond to it all."
Unfortunately, this attorney did not follow through. Although she has made significant and slanderous allegations against my client, no "paper" has been provided showing even a hint of wrongdoing by my client. Still the bold assertions of opposing counsel are expected to make me disbelieve in my client's cause and undermine my confidence in her case.
Worse than the implications of this attorney toward my own client are her failures to live up to the standard she advertises. "Dove Attorney" and Christian Symbols on a website should warn potential clients this person cannot be trusted. If you have to rely on something beyond your own legal experience to assure a client of your legal abilities, well, nuff said.
Sorry to rant here, but I am offended that someone who advertises under the words "Christian Attorney" could be so deceitful and offensive to a fellow attorney, much less to a fellow human being.
"papering an office" implies "we will bury you in paper so you can't possibly respond to it all."
Unfortunately, this attorney did not follow through. Although she has made significant and slanderous allegations against my client, no "paper" has been provided showing even a hint of wrongdoing by my client. Still the bold assertions of opposing counsel are expected to make me disbelieve in my client's cause and undermine my confidence in her case.
Worse than the implications of this attorney toward my own client are her failures to live up to the standard she advertises. "Dove Attorney" and Christian Symbols on a website should warn potential clients this person cannot be trusted. If you have to rely on something beyond your own legal experience to assure a client of your legal abilities, well, nuff said.
Sorry to rant here, but I am offended that someone who advertises under the words "Christian Attorney" could be so deceitful and offensive to a fellow attorney, much less to a fellow human being.
Friday, January 29, 2010
Real ID Problems
Beginning in 2010, all driver licenses must be matched to identification documents, including passports, Social Security Cards, Birth Certificates, Naturalization papers, etc. This presents a real problem for older drivers and especially married women who did not accurately document their married name.
A client recently appeared at my office with an expired Driver License because the Florida Tag office would not renew her driver license because the name did not match either her Birth Certificate or her Social Security Card. Incidentally, neither of those items had matching names!
Now she is forced to go to court to formally and legally change her name to that which she has used for 51 years since her marriage.
Simple solution if you prepare for the problem; Major Problem if you don't anticipate the solution. Two months ago, she could have changed her name on her driver license to match her Social Security card. Now, since the license is expired, she has to jump through several hoops to get a new license issued, in a name matching her Social Security card.
I am here to help!!! Call Me! 407-645-3297, even just to say, I saw your note!
A client recently appeared at my office with an expired Driver License because the Florida Tag office would not renew her driver license because the name did not match either her Birth Certificate or her Social Security Card. Incidentally, neither of those items had matching names!
Now she is forced to go to court to formally and legally change her name to that which she has used for 51 years since her marriage.
Simple solution if you prepare for the problem; Major Problem if you don't anticipate the solution. Two months ago, she could have changed her name on her driver license to match her Social Security card. Now, since the license is expired, she has to jump through several hoops to get a new license issued, in a name matching her Social Security card.
I am here to help!!! Call Me! 407-645-3297, even just to say, I saw your note!
Tuesday, January 5, 2010
Happy New Year
Have you misdated anything yet? I have had to change the 0 of 09 to a 10 at least twice a day since the first. Today, I wrote the full 09 twice and had to rewrite the date. Oops. Mistakes happen.
What does your New Year hold? Do you have plans that require extraordinary effort? You should. Challenge yourself this Year!
Remember, I'm Proud of You!
Actually, "I'm Proud of You" is the title of Tim Madigan's book, subtitled, My Friendship with Fred Rogers. You remember Mr. Rogers. He always told his young viewers, "I'm Proud of You!"
Some people thought Mr. Rogers was too simple and did not teach children much. I remember seeing him as a child and learning that heat rises. I can still duplicate the experiment using cold water in an aquarium and hot colored water in a vial placed at the bottom. When the vial is opened the hot colored water rises to the top. Scientist can explain why, but suffice to say the Hot water has more energy.
People, like energy, can rise to the top as well. Let this be a great year by challenging yourself to Rise to the Top.
What does your New Year hold? Do you have plans that require extraordinary effort? You should. Challenge yourself this Year!
Remember, I'm Proud of You!
Actually, "I'm Proud of You" is the title of Tim Madigan's book, subtitled, My Friendship with Fred Rogers. You remember Mr. Rogers. He always told his young viewers, "I'm Proud of You!"
Some people thought Mr. Rogers was too simple and did not teach children much. I remember seeing him as a child and learning that heat rises. I can still duplicate the experiment using cold water in an aquarium and hot colored water in a vial placed at the bottom. When the vial is opened the hot colored water rises to the top. Scientist can explain why, but suffice to say the Hot water has more energy.
People, like energy, can rise to the top as well. Let this be a great year by challenging yourself to Rise to the Top.
This picture shows my son receiving an award from the Mayor of Winter Park. I am Proud!
Call me! Aubrey Ducker 407-645-3297
Thursday, December 31, 2009
Recommendation from a client
I was proud and thrilled to receive the following:
Recommendation: "I worked with Aubrey this year for the
first time, and found him to be incredibly reliable, timely in his responses,
and able to deal with difficult situations in a compassionate and caring way -
and always with the end result in mind. Working with Aubrey, I realized results
that far exceeded my expectations."
Service Category: Attorney
Year first
hired: 2009
Top Qualities: Great Results, On Time, High Integrity
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