10 Hours in Mediation?

Last Thursday, I spent 10 hours in mediation with a client. We came prepared to settle the matter, but it took until afternoon for the other side to even give us the "number" they were seeking. At the end of the day, no resolution occurred, primarily because everyone was too tired to spend the time reviewing the Marital Settlement Agreement. Sometimes parties choose the wrong attorney to represent them. Other attorneys are stuck working to educate the client when their attorney sets up unreasonable expectations.

In thinking about this, I came across the following article I wrote more than 8 years ago.

Ring That Bell

There are many ways to ring a bell. The large Wheel in the background is attached to a one-inch rope passing from the steeple of the First Baptist Church in America to the Music Director's office. Pulling the rope rotates the bell to strike the large "ball clapper." In this manner the bell rotates and the clapper is relatively stationary. The use of a one inch rope, indicates the weight of the bell and the potential momentum imparted to the person pulling on the rope.

The steeple also has a clock. The clock has a mechanism to ring the bell on the hour and 1/2 hour by use of the "hammer or "alternate clapper." The clock mechanism can't produce the force necessary to move the entire bell, thus the use of a much lighter hammer.

The hammer also attaches to a much smaller rope passing from the steeple to the interior of the church. Pulling the much smaller rope rings the bell, but the bell remains relatively stationary.

All this to say there are many ways to ring a bell.

There are also many ways to pursue your legal rememdy. Choosing an attorney who understands the differences between Litigation and Mediation, between Fighting it Out and Working it Out, can mean the difference between years of litigation and moving on with your life.

Posted by Aubreyslaw at Tuesday, August 04, 2009 No comments: Links to this post   

Making Sound Decisions

Most people assume that given all relevant information, they will make sound decisions. Many people however, do not know when they have all the relevant information and may consider much irrelevant information in their decision making process.
When considering a contract, You Need An Attorney.
Contracts take many forms and all are considered by the courts to be a law between the parties. Whether the contract is for a Water Purification System in your home, a Home Security Monitoring Agreement, a Child Support or Alimony Agreement, an Insurance Settlement, a Probate Accounting, an agreement for piano lessons, a Timeshare Purchase, a Lease, or the purchase of an appliance with a warranty, You Need An Attorney. The company presenting the contract for your signature no doubt had an attorney look at the document to determine its legality and enforceability. You should also have an attorney review the contract. Most Insurance companies have staffs of attorneys to draft and review settlement agreements. The agreements are presented to the consumer by "Adjusters" who work for the insurance company. You the consumer need an attorney as well.

Making Sound Decisions

Most people assume that given all relevant information they can make the best decision. Knowing what information is relevant can be a tricky proposition. One of my colleagues runs a commercial in the Orlando area wherein she says, if an insurance company sends an adjuster to your home to settle a claim, YOU NEED A LAWYER. The Insurance Company employs Many attorneys, and investigators, (called adjusters) to value your claim. These employees of the insurance company owe loyalty to the company, not to you the consumer. YOU NEED A LAWYER!

When presented with a contract of any kind, whether it be to purchase and install a security system or water softener, to purchase piano lessons for your child, to purchase or lease a home, to settle a matter in court, to divide a business interest, You Need an Attorney!

Even people who have attorneys at their disposal, be they family members, close personal friends, or even retained attorneys, may be reluctant to call and ask the important questions, primarily, WHAT INFORMATION IS RELEVANT TO MAKING THIS DECISION?

Sometimes important information to one party in a transaction is not important at all to the other party. Many times, irrelevant information is presented as a reason for the decision to go a certain way. These negotiation tactics harm the consumer if the consumer is unaware. An Attorney, working for you, can help make the best decision by ensuring all RELEVANT information is considered, and all Irrelevant information is ignored.

If you owed money, you would pay it. If you are owed money, you should receive it. Sometimes the question of who owes money to whom can be more complex than one piece of paper would indicate.