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Price range for divorce. Older couple, married 9 years, No children, Income husb works in construction wife receiving SS only. Homeowner, property value is upside down. owe more that is worth. No 401K or savings, living pay check to paycheck. How much will it cost to get a divorce and how long will it take for the divorce to become final. Thanks,

This email was initiated at the Findlaw FirmSite http://www.aubreylaw.com/Contact.shtml.

This is the letter I sent in response:

Dear Ms. _____________,

If you and your husband agree to divorce, and agree to divide all assets, your divorce could be very inexpensive. With agreements, you could be divorce in as little as 21 days. On the other hand, if you cannot agree, and the two of you fight it out in court, your divorce could take a very long time and take significantly more of your resources to complete.

I charge $1,500 for an Uncontested Divorce. A Contested matter begins at $3,000. Fees for filing are also required, $408 filing fee and approximately $42 in service of process charges.

Your divorce sounds as if it should be uncontested; it could also be completed in a Collaborative PRocess, where the two of you meet with advisers and work out the details, then file as "Uncontested."  If you choose a collaborative process, I would represent you for $1,500, but there may be some additional charges for excess time spent in meetings.

Please call my office to schedule an appointment.

If you have questions, call me at 407-645-3297, or send an email to: aubrey@aubreylaw.com

 

Aubrey Ducker

 

The Law Offices of

Aubrey Harry Ducker, Jr. PLC

2020 Mizell Avenue

Winter Park, FL  32792

www.aubreylaw.com

Fla. Bar No.: 173680

Phone: 407-645-3297

Fax: 407-645-3298

I look forward to hearing from you.

 

Senate Bill 718 and House Bill 231

TURNING BACK THE CLOCK on 30 years of progress in Family Law
An Update and Plea to Help Stop this Travesty

Recently the Florida House passed HB 231 mandating changes to divorce law that will make marriage much more palatable and divorce much easier. You see, if this becomes law, no man will fear alimony or child support. Changes proposed will END permanent alimony (never mind that permanent alimony is almost universally not permanent today). Changes will also guarantee child support will be minimal and discretionary. If the primary breadwinner doesn't want to pay support, they are guaranteed 50/50 timeshare, and can easily ask for more to "allow the other spouse maximum time to work" thereby lowering child support to next to nothing. Forget deadbeats, no order will issue requiring support while fighting it out.

OK, those are worst case scenarios, but anything is possible when this legislature is in session!

Here are some of the proposed changes:

- application of these new rules retroactively to alimony awards entered (within the past 15 years by agreement) regardless of whether the support was based upon the agreement of the parties or court ordered after trial;

- litigation of alimony changes carries a risk of attorneys fees, just for contesting the changes in court;

- The new law would REQUIRE the proof of increased income AND for TWO YEARS of increased income to be deemed permanent. Quite a hurdle for the person receiving alimony. There is no such requirement should the obligor seek to obtain downward modification. Oh, my pay went down, so I don't have to prove it or show the decreased income lasted 2 years.

- Possibly the Worst idea: The new law includes a presumption for 50/50 timesharing except in very limited circumstances (prove a danger to the child's health, safety and welfare)(this applies in ALL cases not just divorcing parents)

Another bad idea: if the obligor is unemployed at the time of the dissolution the spouse has to wait a full two years after they become employed before asking for spousal support to be modified. So, lose your job just prior to divorce and 2 years without alimony will certainly punish your former spouse for wanting a divorce!

If this passes out of the Senate tomorrow afternoon, and it looks probable, it will be on the House floor next week and then off to the Governor shortly thereafter. The Family Law Section is doing what it can to defeat these bills, having committed to a grassroots and media campaign to get the word out, but those efforts are going to run short without your help. I am therefore asking that if you have not done so in anticipation of this bill being voted upon by the full Senate tomorrow that you please contact your Senators and, after tomorrow, your Representatives (or all Senators and all Representatives) http://www.flsenate.gov/Senators/Find and http://www.myfloridahouse.gov/Sections/Representatives/representatives.aspx and urge them to oppose this legislation. Then, remember how they voted when they run for office next time.

 

Call me at 407-645-3297 or visit my website at www.aubreylaw.com

Aubrey

Why Collaborative Divorce?

There are MANY reasons to choose a Collaborative Divorce, Costs, Timeliness, Process, Control, CHILDREN.

The Costs associated with asking a Judge to decide major issues in a divorce case can range from hundreds to tens of thousands of dollars. Most attorneys know what the judge is likely to decide given the limited facts the judge will ultimately hear. So why should you give aways your children's college fund in order to risk the judge seeing things your former spouse's way? You should not.

Timliness is how long it will take to have the Judge make a decision. Just getting on the calendar for a hearing may take several weeks to several months. At hearing, if your attorney runs short of time, either because he did not prepare or because the other side managed to distract and stall the presentation of evidence for your case, you may have to wait several more weeks or months to finally have the Judge hear all the evidence allowing a ruling. That ruling may be subject to appeal, or the Judge may take some time to reduce an oral ruling to writing, delaying a few more weeks, or in the case of appeal, several more months.

In a Collaborative Case, time is determined by your attorney's scheduling with the other team members who are all working to Resolve the situation, not to delay decisions! This Collaborative Process puts YOU in Control of the Decisions. Having a Communications Coach, and your legal advisor, helping You Make the Decisions saves time, and ultimately results in a Much less Stressful process for your family. Ultimately, Collaborative Divorce results in Less Drama for children as Parents can learn to work together even though they are no longer married and living together. The reduction in stress in the household, along with new communications styles and mediums may have a lasting effect on your family, and especially your Children. Call me 407-645-3297 or visit my website at www.aubreylaw.com

Still not convinced, according to Lauren Hansen, there are at least 9 more to consider when Children are involved:

9 negative effects divorce reportedly has on children

The Week – Thu, Mar 28, 2013

http://news.yahoo.com/9-negative-effects-divorce-reportedly-children-220900169.html

Just in case you missed it - Divorce brings on a world of issues for children.

We like to think children are resilient and can adapt easily, but in reality, childhood trauma manifests itself for YEARS to come in their lives.
Make the Decisions Now so in the future, your children will Thank you.