1629 Miles for Thanksgiving

This year for Thanksgiving, we drove to Signal Mountain, just outside Chattanooga, Tennessee, to spend the holiday with my family. My parents still live on a farm there and my brother and his wife had their second child, a boy, the Thursday before Thanksgiving. I planned to cook the traditional Turkey, dressing and cranberry salad at my mother's then take dinner to my brother and his family in the valley.

Just before we left for the trip, my wife learned of her college roommate's mother's passing in Greenville, Tennessee, about 3 1/2 hours north of Chattanooga. Since we were also planning to drive to Durham, NC for the Duke v. Miami game, we made the detour for the funeral. This meant Four days of driving over a 6 day holiday weekend. We left Florida Tuesday evening and made it almost to Macon, Ga., before spending the night. Waking up in Cordell, we drove most of the morning to reach Tennessee; however, just before leaving Georgia, we stopped for lunch at my sister's house for lunch with her and her 3 wonderful children. Later that afternoon, we finally arrived at my Grandfather's farm on Signal Mountain. The evening centered on making the oyster dressing and cranberry salad with groceries brought from Florida.

Thanksgiving Day, I spent most of the morning walking around the farm after putting the turkey in the oven to roast. Mom, Dad and I surveyed the back fence lines and tried to find one corner so we could put the final fence up between my mom's property and that sold to a new owner. After we ate lunch, my brother finally arrived with his 2 year old son, so Andy and I walked the fence lines again to verify proper markings corresponded to the deeds issued by the probate court. After it got dark, Andy took dinner home to his wife and baby, and we planned to follow to get a look at the newest Ducker. Unfortunately, as we went to get in the car, I realized I did not have my keys. Fearing I had dropped them somewhere over the miles of fence line I had traversed today, all woodsy and briar filled, I was rather apoplectic. Thankfully my wife found the keys right where I had dropped them in our room.

On Friday morning, we left about sunup to drive to Greeneville for the funeral. My wife's college roommate's mother had been living in Greeneville, Tennessee, to be near one daughter who could take care of her to prevent having to go to an assisted living facility or nursing home. Ironically, the funeral occurred at Tusculum Baptist Church, across the street from Tusculum College, one of the schools my 17-year old is considering. We drove around before the funeral taking in the beautiful campus and sports facilities.

I'll have to write more tomorrow! If you need assistance in selecting an attorney in the Central Florida area for a Collaborative Divorce, Elder Law, Family Law, Guardianship or other question, please call me at 407-645-3297 or visit my website at www.aubreylaw.com

Thanks, Aubrey

Happy Thanksgiving!

Thanksgiving is my favorite time of year.
During this holiday, I get to remember everything for which I am thankful and find a few moments with family.
On facebook, I have posted daily regarding those things making me thankful not only this month, but throughout the year. My list includes: A roof over my head, my children, my loving wife, my family and of course my church and friends. Beyond these easy items are: Courts that administer Justice in an impartial manner; elections that allow our voice to determine the direction of our country; the Florida Gators, for all the wonderful things done on the field and off; Free Public Education; Collaborative Attorneys, who make the practice of Law meaningful and fulfilling; Roads; cars; particular friends who invest their time in my life daily; those friends and family that keep in touch even though we haven't seen each other in literally years, and of course, all the soldiers, sailors and airmen who defend our lifestyle daily.
At this time of year, I am especially thankful for clients who allow me to assist them at some of the most difficult times in their lives. Without their faith in my abilities as an attorney, without their trust in my counsel, I would be exhausted trying to survive.
Thanks be to God for all the blessings in my life, now and throughout the year.

Mortgage Modification Training

While Hurricane Sandy worked over the East Coast, we spent today with 25 attorneys focused on helping homeowners save their homes through modification of mortgages under HAMP, HAFA, DOJ program, and other bank programs. I am always encouraged when so many people want to learn how to help people.

11 Mediators worked with 13 Debtors' counsel attorney and 3 Creditors Counsel attorneys to practice with Mock Mediations at the end of the day.

Thanks to Tammy, Bob, Laurie, Jo, Liz, Wayne, Stephan and Leanne for working together so well to put this seminar together.

Thanks OCBA for hosting and providing lunch and snacks. Next seminar is scheduled for January 7th in Memphis, Tennessee; hoping to see attorneys from Lousianna, Mississippi, Arkansas, Tennessee, Missouri and even Alabama!

Mortgage Modification Education is going GREAT!
So is my Collaborative Divorce practice.
Guardianships for both the elderly and disabled, check.
What do I have to do to get you to call me?

Case Law Update 2012

Learning goes on and on and on . . .
Today, I attended the Webinar provided by the Florida Bar on Family Law Issues from cases this year.
Always good to update your knowledge regarding what the courts are doing, and what the appellate courts are saying about what the courts are doing.
In the past year, Grandparents' Rights, Alimony, adultery, Parenting Plans, Timesharing, paternity, domestic violence, Enforcement and Fees were only a few of the issues considered for the courts' action this year.
When you are selecting an attorney to represent your family in court, ask what courses of study have been completed to remain up to date on the law of the state. 
The 5th DCA clarified the Relocation statute as to the 50-mile rule.
The 2nd DCA clarifited allocation of outstanding expenses for child support to the proportion of income of the parties rather than 50/50 as many agree.
The First DCA clarified a "supportive relationship" and whether it would end alimony.
These are but a very few of the 20 pages of cases reviewed. If you have questions of a legal nature call an attorney.
If you have questions regarding Collaborative Divorce, Elder Law, Family Law or Guardianships, Call me! 407-645-3297 or visit my website at www.aubreylaw.com

Someone Owes you MONEY!

Did you bury a computer screen or television between 1999 and 2007?

If you did, you may be eligible for MONEY from a settlement involving some of the major manufacturers and PRICE FIXING!

Consumers of LCD Flat Screen TVs, Monitors and Laptops Can Share in $1.1 Billion Settlement Fund Eligible consumers and businesses in 24 states and the District of Columbia may be able to collect $25, $100, $200 or more by answering a few simple questions about the LCD flat screen TVs, monitors, and laptops they bought from 1999 to 2006. No receipts or other documents are required for small claims. The deadline to file a claim is December 6, 2012. The 24 states are: Arizona, Arkansas, California, Florida, Hawaii, Iowa, Kansas, Maine, Massachusetts, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Missouri, Nevada, New Mexico, New York, North Carolina, North Dakota, Rhode Island, South Dakota, Tennessee, Vermont, West Virginia and Wisconsin. Click here for an overview of the Settlements. If you would like to print a Claim Form and mail it in, please click here.

Mortgage Modification Education

If you have a Mortgage, or represent Clients who have mortgages, you should attend the Mortgage Modification Education this Friday at UCF's downtown center. To register, go to: http://www.mortgagemodificationeducation.com/

Or email me at aubreylaw@gmail.com

The cost for attorneys is only $399; for that you will receive 7 hours of CLE including 1 hour of Ethics.

Helping Senior Adults, Elder Law 101

People ask me, "What is Elder Law?"

I answer, it is helping older Americans with problems that come up primarily due to age. You realize of course that after a certain number of years, thoughts of death become more prevalent and preparation becomes much more important. Children become adults and begin asking, "What do I do about my parents?" When parents begin needing assistance, adult children bear a great burden. They may have children of their own in school or starting out and suddenly, Mom needs a new place to live that will provide nursing care. These problems are not new; our processes of dealing with care of the elderly is not new. All over the globe, seniors are afforded great respect and care. Only in the United States do we warehouse seniors in "adult communities," Assisted Living Facilities and Nursing homes.

When Daddy needs nursing care, what questions should be answered?
First: How much care is needed?
Second: How much care can he afford?
Third: Who is responsible to pay when Daddy cannot?

Other questions that may come up include:

What about Social Security, and Medicare?
Do we need to do "Medicaid Planning?"
What is Medicaid Planning?

Parents may not wish to discuss their finances with adult children and may feel freer to discuss the details of planning with an Elder Law Professional. Many times parents have begun the process, but children are kept in the dark for fear that the children will want to "inherit" early. Many seniors have received advice regarding Medicaid Planning over the radio or television but may not understand fully the details. Many seniors worry about losing their homestead or the equity they have built up over the years. In Florida, we protect homesteads. The equity in the home can survive incapacity and death provided simple steps are taken to preserve all the rights afforded to homeowners.

When Medicaid begins to enter the conversation  with regard to health care, it may be too late. Most Health care Decisions must be made quickly; however, medicaid planning may require as much as 5 years to be fully effective.

When you are faced with these and other questions, Call me at 407-645-3297, or visit my website at www.aubreylaw.com

Looking for Family Law Attorney

How do you find a Family Law Attorney in the Orlando area?

Most people search Google, Findlaw or bing.com. My last post was more than 6 months ago, and I thought I'd try a little experiment. If you click on my link, www.aubreylaw.com or send me an email telling me you read this, I will respond with a summer special offer. My email is aubrey@aubreylaw.com

Let me know how I'm doing!

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