Monday, May 24, 2010

Fraud and Elder Abuse

What happens when you receive a letter from an attorney promising you a settlement of $130,000 but failing to disclose any information as to the case, the parties or how you came to be contacted?

Does your answer change if they include an "Official Bank Check" to cover the court costs as an "advance against "bailiff costs and court fees"?

Unfortunately, many people will fall for this scam and deposit the check into their account, giving vital information to the theives working to steal their money. Others will talk to the scammer on the phone and give all the information needed to have their accounts drained.

Elders are at risk for these scams. The FBI, AARP, and the Florida Department of Elder Affairs all warn of the risks of giving personal information over the phone to someone you don't know, but seniors continue to be duped by official looking correspondence simply because they cannot believe this would be a scam. It all looks so official.

Anyone can go online to verify the identity of an attorney, even those out of state. Go to Martindale.com to find a list of attorneys worldwide who are of good reputation. Lawyers.com and Findlaw.com also lists attorneys. Yes these sites require the attorney to pay a fee for advertising to be listed; however, if attorneys are dealing with you from out of state, shouldn't they be listed somewhere?

Finding an attorney is not hard; verifying the "attorney" who found you is truly serving your interests, may be. Beating fraud is worth the effort.

Friday, May 21, 2010

What Not to Expect from Your Attorney

Guarantee: No Attorney should Ever "Guarantee" a certain result from a court. Many times courts rule on issues in line with past rulings; however, a Guarantee of any certain result is prohibited by the rules of ethical conduct. The Attorney can never forsee every possible occurrance or testimony in a given case. With the facts at hand the attorney may recommend a course of action, but any "Guarantee" of what the court will do, is quite simply bad advice.

Promise: Like a Guarantee, for an attorney to "Promise" a certain result is not allowed. The attorney has no control over the other party, and no control over the court.

Advise that the Client Lie: Attorneys are forbidden to illicit testimony they know to be false. This means, if the attorney asks the client a question under oath, such as at trial or deposition, and the client answers in such a way as the attorney Knows the answer if False, the attorney must correct the situtation. There are ethical rules every attorney MUST follow to ensure the integrity of the court system. The most important is not to allow the client to lie to the court.

Willingness to Lie for the Client: Just as the attorney cannot encourage or permit the client to lie to the court, so the Attorney if Forbidden to Lie for the client. If your attorney is willing to lie for you, how can you trust that your attorney will not lie TO you?

Dishonesty: At the heart of the Attorney-Client privilege is the notion that the attorney cannot adequately represent the client without full knowledge and honesty from the client. The Client therefore Must be able to Trust the Attorney to Fully and Fairly answer questions posed. In order to protect the client to fully reveal information that may help or harm the case, the attorney-client privilege prevents the attorney revealing or using the information to the client's detriment.

Perfection: The PRACTICE of Law is truly an art, not a science. Statutes are continually amended by legislatures, interpreted by courts, and exposed by attorneys. Sometimes what has always occurred doesn't and many times the court has not had a question posed in this way. Attorneys may not have all the information necessary to completely anticipate every possible problem. But we try!

If you can accept attorneys are only human, you may be able to accept their assistance!

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

What Should You Expect from Your Lawyer?

Honesty. If your attorney doesn't tell you the potential downside and pittfalls of a course of action, she is doing you a disservice. You must know the bad possibilities as well as the good. Only when fully informed can you make the best decision. After all, you are the one who has to live with your decisions!

Integrity. Your opponent must be able to trust what your attorney tells them. The Court MUST be able to trust what your attorney tells it. If the attorney says he will present certain evidence, or he has a receipt showing something was purchased by a business, he must be able to back it up, or be forced to prove every detail - at potentially great expense.

Fairness. Treating the other side fairly doesn't hurt your case. In many instances it begins the process of healing that will allow both sides to put the difficulties to rest once and for all in settlement. A Trial is a bad way to achieve fairness. The parties have far less input and much greater expense. Besides, who knows your family better, You and Your future Ex Spouse? or the Judge who has listened to both sides of an argument for 4-6 hours?

Reasonable Billing Practices. The honest answer is Your attorney has a family to feed and must operate his or her practice in a profitable manner. Many times people assume a "quick question" will not result in a bill. Sometimes the answer is clear, but the question still interrupts the work ongoing in the office and usually requires an answer the same day. With only 8 hours in the work day, most attorneys have to work several more hours each day just to keep the messages from piling up, while still researching legal opinions, writing briefs, reviewing the latest rulings, keeping abreast of statutory law changes, planning for hearings, preparing for trials, etc.

Tomorrow: What NOT to expect from your attorney.

Thursday, May 13, 2010

Safe Driving for Seniors

Driving gets harder as you age. Reflexes are not as fast, hearing and eyesight begin to deteriorate.

Then again, experience makes older drivers less likely to take risks, such as driving too fast in the rain, or following too closely.

What do you do when Dad needs to stop driving? Concern is common among adult children of "experienced" drivers. Aging parents continue to drive as they have for years. Just bringing up driving restrictions may seem to overstep boundaries. How does a 50 year old tell a 70 year old what is acceptable?

Sometimes just resisting driving at night or during rush hour can alleviate most concerns. Unfortunately, it may be hard for children to identify and correct potentially dangerous behavior.

A real concern appears when Mom begins to "forget" where she is going, how to get there, or worse, how to get home. When Alzheimers and dementia begin, driving may be the first clue. Does Dad seem lost behind the wheel? Does Mom need constant direction to keep her going the right way?

For help with these questions and more, call an attorney who practices in Elder Law. Choosing the right attorney is paramount to making a smooth transition from driving to caring for your aging parents.

If you have questions, Call me, 407-645-3297, or visit my website, www.floridaguardianattorney.com You will be glad you asked.

Friday, May 7, 2010

Take Care of Yourself

Much has been written about the "Sandwich Generation" - those caught between caring for their children while simultaneously caring for their parents. Many people feel the crunch of time and demands and forget that while caring for others, the caregiver also needs care.

Balancing a full-time job with child care is exponentially more difficult when aging or incapacitate parents enter the mix. Children may not understand having to be second or even third on the list when Grandpa or Grandma requires precedence. Family stress compounds when siblings are pressured to provide care without compensation because it is "more convenient" due to proximity to the marital or parental home. When Fathers and Mothers become the burden, HELP IS AVAILABLE!

Please look to community resources for counseling and assistance. If you find yourself overwhelmed with caring while being forgotten, give me a call. Aubrey Ducker, 407-645-3297 or visit my website at www.floridaguardianattorney.com

Morning will come.

Morning will come.
No matter how dark the night!