Much has been written about the "Sandwich Generation" - those caught between caring for their children while simultaneously caring for their parents. Many people feel the crunch of time and demands and forget that while caring for others, the caregiver also needs care.
Balancing a full-time job with child care is exponentially more difficult when aging or incapacitate parents enter the mix. Children may not understand having to be second or even third on the list when Grandpa or Grandma requires precedence. Family stress compounds when siblings are pressured to provide care without compensation because it is "more convenient" due to proximity to the marital or parental home. When Fathers and Mothers become the burden, HELP IS AVAILABLE!
Please look to community resources for counseling and assistance. If you find yourself overwhelmed with caring while being forgotten, give me a call. Aubrey Ducker, 407-645-3297 or visit my website at www.floridaguardianattorney.com
Showing posts with label Family Stress. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Family Stress. Show all posts
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Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Why would You even Talk to a Divorce Lawyer?
They will just break up your marriage! NOT TRUE!
Just having Knowledge of the Law can be key to success in many endeavors, even a successful marriage. Remember - Ignorance of the Law is No Excuse!
There are many issues under the "Family Law" umbrella. Adoption, Divorce, Child Support, Custody - or as we now say in Florida, Time Share - Domestic Violence, Post Disolution Motions, and Prenuptial Agreements are all areas Attorneys work and are vitally needed.
Adoption has many differing aspects that only an attorney can sort out to make the best for your family situation. Is Open Adoption an option? Should you consider a Foreign Adoption? How do you domesticate your Foreign Adoption? Should you be a Foster Parent before even considering adoption? An attorney can help you analyze these critical questions to best suit your family situation.
Prenuptial Agreements may sound like movie star problems; however, seniors, second marriages, widows, widowers, and the like are most likely to need these contracts. Only a well trained attorney can properly guide you through the problems and potential defects in such complex documents.
Divorce - some people are immediately turned off by the word; but in our society, everybody knows someone who needs to talk to a divorce lawyer. Working things out in the court may be more important for the children's wellbeing than staying together for the sake of the children. Children do not thrive in conflict. They sense conflict without being told all the particulars. They want Mommy and Daddy to be happy, but don't know how to make Happy work. Thus children will internalize the conflict and become bullies at school, or withdrawn from friends, or neglect schoolwork, or work extra hard at school, pressuring themselves to make their parents HAPPY. Children should not be made the source of their parents conflict or happiness. That is Stress!!!
Why talk to a Divorce Lawyer? For the sake of the Children! Visit my website at www.aubreylaw.com or
Call me today, 407-645-3297, even if just to say, "Hey, I saw your blog!"
Just having Knowledge of the Law can be key to success in many endeavors, even a successful marriage. Remember - Ignorance of the Law is No Excuse!
There are many issues under the "Family Law" umbrella. Adoption, Divorce, Child Support, Custody - or as we now say in Florida, Time Share - Domestic Violence, Post Disolution Motions, and Prenuptial Agreements are all areas Attorneys work and are vitally needed.
Adoption has many differing aspects that only an attorney can sort out to make the best for your family situation. Is Open Adoption an option? Should you consider a Foreign Adoption? How do you domesticate your Foreign Adoption? Should you be a Foster Parent before even considering adoption? An attorney can help you analyze these critical questions to best suit your family situation.
Prenuptial Agreements may sound like movie star problems; however, seniors, second marriages, widows, widowers, and the like are most likely to need these contracts. Only a well trained attorney can properly guide you through the problems and potential defects in such complex documents.
Divorce - some people are immediately turned off by the word; but in our society, everybody knows someone who needs to talk to a divorce lawyer. Working things out in the court may be more important for the children's wellbeing than staying together for the sake of the children. Children do not thrive in conflict. They sense conflict without being told all the particulars. They want Mommy and Daddy to be happy, but don't know how to make Happy work. Thus children will internalize the conflict and become bullies at school, or withdrawn from friends, or neglect schoolwork, or work extra hard at school, pressuring themselves to make their parents HAPPY. Children should not be made the source of their parents conflict or happiness. That is Stress!!!
Why talk to a Divorce Lawyer? For the sake of the Children! Visit my website at www.aubreylaw.com or
Call me today, 407-645-3297, even if just to say, "Hey, I saw your blog!"
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