Boxing Day - in Canada - New Holiday Tradition Here

I hope your Christmas was Bright and Merry!!!

On the Day after Christmas, Canada celebrates Boxing Day. I think that is when you box everything up for next year!

It has become a new tradition at our house.

Peace to you; Have a Happy and Safe New Year!

Aubrey

Chirstmas Week and Chanukah Week, Together Again

Happy Holidays! If that makes you angry, stop reading and find a Blog you will enjoy more!
Happy Chanukah, as my Jewish friends are on day 5 (it began Tuesday, December 16, 2014 at sundown and ends Wednesday, December 24, 2014, at sundown) their holiday runs directly into the Christian Christmas Holiday.

One of the Icons of the Bankruptcy Community in Orlando, Jules Cohen, lost his dear wife of more than 50 years this past week. While Jules is Jewish, his wife is Christian. Their marriage speaks volumes of the ability of people in love to work through problems - even conflicts at the very basis of their beliefs.

Funny how divergent sources can come together for peace. Baptist News Global  included in an email on Friday a Huffington Post article, 36 Things I know after 36 years of Marriage. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/winifred-m-reilly/36-things-i-know-after-36_b_6321032.html?
 
Normally, Baptists and the Huffington Post seem to be from the opposite ends of the spectrum of opinion. Normally, opposites attract, right?
Even then, problems arise. What do you do with problems?
I like these excerpts:

2. Most marital problems are fixable. Really. Even the tough ones.

3. The D word (divorce) is a dangerous weapon. I suggest the F word instead: frustrated. Nobody's heart will be broken if you say, "I'm so FRUSTRATED I could scream!"
13. Marriage is a long negotiation about how two people are going to run things. Money. Intimacy. Parenting. Chores. You can battle, or you can collaborate. Collaboration is a lot more rewarding.

14. Even the most stubborn among us can learn how to yield. Trust me on this one.
36. One of you has to go first. Apologize first. Be vulnerable first. Yield first. Forgive first. Why not let that person be you?

Collaborative Divorce is a "New Thing" in the last 20 years. Still it has taken a LONG time to really gain traction. There is still no "Collaborative Law Statute" in Florida that would assist people in using this method. Collaboration is working together to make decisions that benefit the family - even if the family is separating.

Sometimes the changes people make in their lives require changes in others that others may not be able or willing to make. Freedom necessitates being free to choose to start over. If you need help, call me.

It's Friday but Sunday's Coming

Good Friday - I don't know what is good about it! Jesus Christ, the Savior of the World was Crucified about 2,000 years ago. Witnesses made accounts of His death. Other's made accounts of His life. And some others published accounts of His Resurrection. That is what I believe.

Thankfully, I believe we can have assurance of the Abundant Life. We can also know we are in God's Perfect Will in the Universe.

It has been said that Christmas is the Promise and Easter is the Fulfillment. I like that. We live in a world of brokenness, broken homes, broken lives, broke debtors, soulless banks. The Almighty Creator of the Universe, God cares more for us than our bank account or net worth.

God Loves You. God Wants You to have an Abundant Life. God wants to restore you to full fellowship with the Universe. It's Friday, but Sunday's promise of Easter is Coming.

Amen.

A dear friend Pastor Henry Green, of Heritage Baptist Church in Annapolis, MD, wrote this for Maundy Thursday: http://www.abpnews.com/opinion/commentaries/item/8342-overcoming-darkness

Many of my friends write and work at Traditionally Baptist Institutions. Feel free to visit www.bjcpa.org or www.christianethicstoday.org or www.aubreylaw.com that last one is not really a baptist institution, but I like it!

Or call me: 407-645-3297

Aubrey

Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas! This has been a year of firsts, lasts and never mores!
Firsts included:
A personal best in the House of Hope Run Around the Pines 5K, followed by breakfast at my house served for many friends who also ran the race.
Scalloping around the Crystal River/Homosassa Gulf Coast. After the Deep Horizons explosion caused an Oil Spill (Hopefully Last and Never more) in the Gulf of Mexico, the State of Florida opened the Scalloping season early to ensure the maximum harvest possible prior to any potential oil contamination. My best description of Scalloping is a great underwater Easter egg hunt! Snorkeling in 5 to 25 feet of water watching for scallops may sound boring to many people, but I assure you, the first time you pick one up and find two or five more within arms reach, and the one begins snapping and swimming toward you, YOU WILL BE HOOKED! Unfortunately, when you clean your 5 gallons of scallops and realize only one meal's worth of result, you may be a little disappointed. However, the next time you order scallops in a restaurant, you might find a greater appreciation for their size and plumpness!
Finally, my brother and his wife had their First Child, a son, in October. I fear October may have signaled my parents' Last visit to Florida for a while! A new child brings all the wonder and potential of the world to bear on the family. I pray they will enjoy every possible happiness!
Once again, I look back over the year and see blessings I did not deserve, and trials I thought were undeserved! The richest blessings of all are the many friends I have been fortunate to encounter, some daily, some once in a lifetime. At Christmas I try to reflect on all these gifts and remember to say Thank you.
May God Richly Bless You this Season.
If you have need of an attorney, please do not hesitate to call me. 407-645-3297 or visit my website at www.aubreylaw.com