Many
couples choose collaborative divorce because of its benefits, like its low cost compared to litigation,
the non-combative nature of the process, and the greater likelihood that they
will reach a mutually satisfying settlement through collaboration. The benefits
of collaborative divorce do not stop here. Many other people in a divorcing
couple’s lives, particularly their children, can reap significant benefits from
the couple’s choice to do a collaborative divorce.
If
you are considering collaborative divorce, think about how your choice will
impact the other people in your life now and those who might enter it in the
future. Of course, the decision to divorce through collaboration should be made
according to whether it is the right choice for you and your spouse – if it is
the right choice, its benefits will ripple to your other relationships.
The
most important aspect of a collaborative divorce is the actual act of working
together with a spouse to create a divorce settlement that benefits both
parties. Collaborative problem solving is a skill that a divorced individual
can continue to use in interactions with the former spouse and new partners in
the years that follow his or her divorce.
Your Children
After
you and your spouse, your children are the ones who can benefit the most from
your collaborative divorce. This is because through the collaborative process,
you are the ones to determine your parenting plan, rather than the court. You
know your children and their needs best and if you and your spouse are willing
to work together, can develop an ideal parenting plan that promotes productive
co-parenting.
Your Families and Mutual Friends
When
a couple divorces, it is natural for their families and friends to feel they
have to “take sides.” This can be very difficult for individuals who are
equally good friends with both halves of a couple and even family members who
have grown attached to their in-laws. Choosing collaboration generally makes it
possible for the divorcing couple to remain on good terms, which can make the
divorce easier for their friends and loved ones.
Your Future Partners
You
or your spouse might date again. You might even marry again and have more
children with a new partner. Having a poor relationship with a former spouse
can hurt new relationships, especially when there are children involved.
Effectively communicating and co-parenting with a former partner can make it
easier for a new partner to enter your life and your children’s lives. It can
also make maintaining this new relationship easier by eliminating the chance
for conflict with a former partner on issues related to your children.
Work with an Experienced Winter Park
Collaborative Divorce Lawyer
Before
you commit to a collaborative divorce, speak with an experienced Winter
Park divorce lawyer about the
specifics of your case. Your lawyer could find that collaboration is right for
you or he or she could steer you in a direction better suited for your case.
Contact The Law Offices of Aubrey Harry Ducker, Jr., P.L.C. today to set up
your flat-rate consultation in our office.
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