To Grow Closer, Ask These Questions:

When you're fighting all the time, asking someone about their dreams for the future can be a recipe for disaster, especially if those dreams don't include you.

But, if you want to explore your spouse's psyche without risking hurt feelings, try asking the following questions.

Not only will they help you get to know one another all over again; they may also help you find new ways of relating:

·         What's your best memory of us as a couple?

 

·         What did you think of me when we first met?

·         What do you think is our biggest strength as a couple?

·         If you could change one thing about our marriage, what would it be?

·         If I could change one behavior tomorrow to make you happier, what would it be?

·         What would you like to change about yourself as a partner?

·         What are your hopes for our future together?

·         How do you think our values and relationship have changed over time?

·         What's the best thing about being married to me?

·         Is there any sexual trick you've been itching to try?

·         What are you most scared of in our relationship?

·         If I could surprise you with anything, what would you want for it to be?

·         What does a perfect day look like for you?

·         Which ways of showing love feel best to you? Gifts? Sex? Favors? Something else?

·         If I could get you any gift in the world, what would you want? Why?

·         If you could travel anywhere, where would it be?

·         What's the sexiest thing I could do for your right now?

 

Hope it helps! BTW, this came from: http://staymarriedflorida.com/staymarriedblog/want-to-fall-in-love-all-over-ask-your-spouse-these-questions

 

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